Power and Marriage?

Gloria Steinem is quoted as saying that she did not marry till late in life because of the legal impediments women faced when married. Abigail Adams lived in a time when the legal impediments against marriage were far worse. For example,  women could not own land, yet she negotiated land purchases for her husband and he held the title. From all accounts, it appears she accepted the legal impediments and was happily married. Phyllis Schlafly called herself subservient, yet did not use the word “obey” in her wedding vows. Gisele Bunchendon is quoted as saying she banked her money because she expects her husband to support her financially. Barbara Corcoran is quoted as saying that when she out-earned her husband, it made her feel less feminine.

What does all this mean about power and marriage? How is it relevant in a dual career world? These are some of the preliminary questions that prompted me to write my new book, “Power, Strength & Perseverance: What women know about other women, but search for in themselves”. I would love to hear your thoughts.

-Patricia